Unleash The Man Within
Ready to experience a life of confidence, success, and sexual integrity? Unleash The Man Within provides principles, tools and practical insights that help professional men unlock their potential by developing a bulletproof inner life. If you want thriving relationships, a strong connection with God, and freedom from sexual misbehavior, this podcast is for you. With 5 episodes per week featuring leading experts, real-life stories, research-based findings and Bible-backed teachings, UMW is the #1 weekday men‘s health podcast. Your host, Sathiya Sam, is a world-renowned coach, international speaker, and author, who specializes in helping professional men overcome porn addiction. His signature program, DeepClean™, has helped athletes, doctors, pastors, executives and entrepreneurs experience long-term freedom by resolving the root issues of sexual misbehavior.
Episodes
![790 - The Shocking Link Between Porn and Sex Trafficking](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11952909/PodcastCover_Final_HighQuality_6x39ck_300x300.jpg)
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
I've never talked about this particular angle of how sex trafficking and pornography are linked. While I don't believe in shaming you or scaring you into quitting pornography, this information is staggering and honestly sobering when you think about the potential consequences of watching pornography...not only in your life, but in the lives of women and children around the world.
In this episode, I discuss:
2:00 The porn industry is the marketing department for sex trafficking
5:15 More direct links between porn and sex trafficking
6:12 The impact on kids
8:02 The hard reality of who you're watching
Resources:
The Last Relapse (get my book for free!):https://thelastrelapsebook.com/
Get Your Question Answered:
❓ Submit Your Question Here
LET'S CONNECT
➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya
➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram
➡️ Subscribe on YouTube
Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!
![789 - Q&A Oversharing, Finding Someone To Trust, and Helping A Teen Brother Make Better Choices with Sathiya and Shawn](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11952909/PodcastCover_Final_HighQuality_6x39ck_300x300.jpg)
10 hours ago
10 hours ago
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneteau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions!
Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.
We kick off this episode with one of the most important topics of recovery...your relationship with your mom. As surprising as it can be for our clients, this is one of the deepest wells to explore to become truly free - and not just have to white-knuckle your recovery and rely on your own self-control.
Then we answer your questions on the right amount to share with your significant other, who to open up to, and how to influence a sibling to make better choices.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:39 The role your relationship with your mother plays in compulsive sexual behaviour and porn use
6:46 How to determine if enmeshment is impacting your recovery
14:42 Marriage counseling update
22:37 Question 1: Is there ever a point where sharing every single sin and relapse becomes too much of a burden for my partner?
30:11 Question 2: How do I decide who to trust to open up to about my struggle with pornography?
36:00 Question 3: How to influence my teenage brother so he doesn't turn to porn or other unhealthy coping mechanisms?
Get Your Question Answered:
❓ Submit Your Question Here
Resources Mentioned
Unwanted by Jay Stringer
The Last Relapse (Free Book)
LET'S CONNECT
➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya
➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram
➡️ Watch on YouTube
![788 - How To Convince Your Husband He Needs Help](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11952909/PodcastCover_Final_HighQuality_6x39ck_300x300.jpg)
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788 - How To Convince Your Husband He Needs Help
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10 hours ago
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
One of the most common questions I get is from wives asking how they can support their husbands in recovery. Usually they're asking, "How can I convince my husband that he needs help?" Or sometimes the husband is already in recovery, and they're not sure how best to support or navigate the relationship.
So ladies, this one is for you.
And men...stick around to the end of the episode, I have something important for you to hear.
In this episode, I discuss:
1:40 Answering one of the most common questions from the ladies who listen to the podcast!
4:50 The first hard truth you have to accept
7:48 What to do instead...the question to ask yourself
9:18 The second layer of support you can offer
10:07 What to do if your husband isn't on the recovery journey
12:23 A message to the men listening (about your wife)
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book!)
Get Your Question Answered:
❓ Submit Your Question Here
LET'S CONNECT
➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya
➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram
➡️ Subscribe on YouTube
Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!
![787 - Lila Pisor on Betrayal Trauma and Healing Marriage After Addiction](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11952909/PodcastCover_Final_HighQuality_6x39ck_300x300.jpg)
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![786 - Identity Is Discovered, Not Achieved](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11952909/PodcastCover_Final_HighQuality_6x39ck_300x300.jpg)
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786 - Identity Is Discovered, Not Achieved
10 hours ago
10 hours ago
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
One of the most tragic things in the culture today is that so many of us think that our identity is something we have to achieve. Something we get from our performance. But as Christians, you and I need to remember that our identity is given to us already as believers in Christ. It's not about achieving it...it's about discovering it. We all have an infinitely full spiritual "bank account", but we need to constantly grow in how much we can access it.
In this episode, I discuss:
0:44 Submit your questions (link below)
3:21 The subject you just can't run away from...identity
4:34 What it actually means to be a "new creation"
5:58 Discover your identity, don't achieve it
Get Your Question Answered:
❓ Submit Your Question Here
LET'S CONNECT
➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya
➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram
➡️ Watch on YouTube
Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!
![785 - Q&A Past Relationships, Libido Reduction, and Supporting a Struggling Son with Sathiya and Shawn](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11952909/PodcastCover_Final_HighQuality_6x39ck_300x300.jpg)
10 hours ago
10 hours ago
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneteau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions!
Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.
We kick off this episode by opening a can of worms, discussing submission in marriage and the ideas of complementarianism vs egalitarianism. Then, we answer 3 of your questions on how to move past sexual immorality, whether you should use libido-reducing supplements, and how to help your son when you find out he's struggling with porn.
In this episode, we discuss:
1:03 Live coaching on the podcast SOON
6:04 Submission in the context of a marriage (complementarian vs egalitarian?)
16:12 Challenging judgement of non-traditional gender roles
22:57 Question 1: How do I heal from sexual immorality in a past relationship as I pursue a new woman in sexual integrity?
30:48 Question 2: Am I interfering with my recovery by using libido-reducing supplements?
35:33 Question 3: How do I support my teenage son in his recently-revealed struggle with pornography?
Get Your Question Answered:
❓ Submit Your Question Here
Resources Mentioned
Sheila Wray Gregoire Podcasts on Complementarianism
Sheila Wray Gregoire IG
The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer
The Last Relapse (Free Book)
The Grief Recovery Method Books
The Big Six - What Every Child Needs From Their Parents
LET'S CONNECT
➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya
➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram
➡️ Watch on YouTube
![784 - Is Sexual Sin Worse Than Other Sins](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11952909/PodcastCover_Final_HighQuality_6x39ck_300x300.jpg)
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784 - Is Sexual Sin Worse Than Other Sins
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10 hours ago
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Time to open up a can of worms. On the one hand, sexual sin is equal with other sins insofar as they fall short of God's perfection. However, I'm going to dive into 1 Corinthians 6 with you to show that sexual sin actually IS worse than other sins, and hopefully encourage you to walk in freedom and honour the living God by treating your body as the temple He deserves.
In this episode, I discuss:
0:53 Our free resources available to you, including my book (links below)
2:35 Laying out the argument of comparing or ranking sins
4:37 Sexual sin IS NOT worse than any other sin, BUT...
6:26 What 1 Corinthians tells us about sexual sin
8:17 Sexual sin IS worse than other sins, BECAUSE...
Resources:
The Last Relapse (get my book for free!)
Get Your Question Answered:
❓ Submit Your Question Here
LET'S CONNECT
➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya
➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram
➡️ Watch on YouTube
Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!
![783 - Greg Oliver on Recovering From Addiction and Healing Your Marriage After Being Exposed](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11952909/PodcastCover_Final_HighQuality_6x39ck_300x300.jpg)
10 hours ago
10 hours ago
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Greg Oliver’s sexual addiction was exposed in 2009, bringing severe consequences, but also hope for a future free from addiction. God graciously used this exposure to transform Greg’s life, and now the lives of many other men. Greg is the Founder and Executive Director of Awaken, where he uses his own experience and skills to help other men break free from sexual addiction.
In this episode, we discuss:
2:43 Greg’s story of being caught in sexual sin and how it led to him now helping men recover from sexual brokenness
8:06 What’s changed over the past 9 years when it comes to helping men with recovery?
16:40 Not just behavior modification…new, better recovery resources
19:33 Challenges men face in the recovery process
22:45 How to build real, meaningful connections with people around you
26:28 Bringing your wife into your recovery for both your benefits (especially after a betrayal of trust)
33:30 What did Greg’s marriage look like during the recovery process?
37:28 What does it really mean to get to the root of the problem?
42:31 How Greg stays clean and free personally after many years in this space
Resources Mentioned:
Awaken
Johann Hari: Everything You Think You Know About Addiction Is Wrong TED Talk
Get Your Question Answered:
❓ Submit Your Question Here
LET'S CONNECT
➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya
➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram
➡️ Watch on YouTube
Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!
![782 - How to Mend Relationships Damaged by Pornography](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11952909/PodcastCover_Final_HighQuality_6x39ck_300x300.jpg)
10 hours ago
10 hours ago
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
One of the worst consequences of pornography addiction is the toll it takes on our intimate relationships. We've worked with too many clients who come to us after their wife has threatened divorce...or actually left them. But praise God, there IS hope to repair your relationships, and today I'm going to give you my 3 best tips to do so.
In this episode, I discuss:
0:58 Make sure to submit your questions for me and Shawn to answer (link below)
1:54 The huge consequences that porn has on relationships (including indirect ones you might not even realize)
5:05 Mend broken relationships through meaningful connection with others
6:36 Mend broken relationships by learning to trust yourself
8:15 Mend broken relationships through prayer (plus an incredible story of God's grace in answering prayer)
Resources:
The Last Relapse (get my book for free!)
Get Your Question Answered:
❓ Submit Your Question Here
LET'S CONNECT
➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya
➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram
➡️ Watch on YouTube
Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!
![781 - Q&A 3 Mainstream Porn Recovery Tactics We Don't Love, Emotional Overwhelm, and Confession Boundaries with Sathiya and Shawn](https://pbcdn1.podbean.com/imglogo/image-logo/11952909/PodcastCover_Final_HighQuality_6x39ck_300x300.jpg)
10 hours ago
10 hours ago
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneateau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions!
Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.
They explain why they're not massive fans of a few of the mainstream porn recovery methods, then answer questions on emotional overwhelm, confessing sexual thoughts to your wife, and understanding the effects of early trauma and how to move on.
In this episode, we discuss:
2:05 The three mainstream porn recovery methods and why we're not huge fans
4:11 Willpower
7:47 Internet Filters
14:43 Accountability groups
20:29 Question 1: How do I get better at handling emotional overwhelm so I don't turn to porn as a coping mechanism?
30:00 Question 2: What are some boundaries or guidelines you recommend in confessing sexual thoughts and behaviours to my wife?
39:30 Question 3: How to understand the effects of trauma as a young child, and how to move on
Get Your Question Answered:
❓ Submit Your Question Here
Resources Mentioned
The Feel Wheel in my book, The Last Relapse
Unwanted by Jay Stringer
LET'S CONNECT
➡️ Free Recovery Resources from Sathiya
➡️ Follow Sathiya on Instagram
➡️ Watch on YouTube
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