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508 - 5 Ways To Stay Addicted To Porn

This satirical episode explains the 5 ways to get addicted (and stay addicted) to pornography. Sometimes looking at things through a different lens can be helpful for gaining clarity on what is really true. Embedded in each of these faux pas are actually 5 key tenets you must have in place to successfully recover. The 5 ways to stay addicted are:1) Tell No One2) Set Yourself Up For Failure3) Focus On Modifying Behavior4) Keep God Out5) Obtain A Victim Mentality
 
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507 - Novelty Enhances Pleasure

Few things are more pleasure-inducing than novelty. Today's episode explains why new things often give us that "spark" that we are looking for in life. While this can be good in the right context, it can be incredibly toxic in the wrong context, sexuality being no exception.
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506 - Two Must-Haves For Quitting Porn

While there are a variety of ways to quit pornography, most successful stories feature two primary components. Today's episode explains why consistency and a proven system are absolute necessities if you are looking to make a lasting recovery, and why if you have one without the other, you simply delay failure.
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505 - Shane O’Neill & Sathiya Sam on Spiritual Disciplines, Being Made In God’s Image, and Building Depth In Your Spiritual Life

Shane O'Neill (Proven Men Ministries & Host of Naked Gospel Podcast) returns to the podcast for an in-depth conversation with Sathiya surrounding spiritual development. This robust conversation covers a myriad of subjects, including:-The purpose of spiritual disciplines (and why many Christians miss the point)-The real reason spiritual disciplines are necessary for spiritual growth-How spiritual practices foster spiritual formation-Imago Dei and what it means to be made in God's image-The importance of knowing your season in life-The practical of spiritual disciplines-The power of practicing stillness and using the imagination to connect with Jesus-How to fight perfectionism in this area of your life
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504 - The Dangers of AI and Pornography

With the rapid development of artificial intelligence, a new set of challenges has surfaced in the porn recovery world. Today's episode explains why NOW is the time to quit, as the barrier to have highly stimulating sexual experiences diminishes and the temptation significantly increases with the development of AI.
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503 - Takeaways From Meeting Jordan Peterson

Sathiya had the chance to attend a VIP event with Jordan Peterson recently. Regardless of how you feel about Jordan Peterson, there is much to learn from a man who is making waves on several important fronts including gender, technology regulation (especially AI), and sexuality. Today's episode features a few major takeaways from the VIP event and why Jordan Peterson embodying his message is so inspiring to the next generation of men.
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502 - The 5 Ways That Pornography and Sex Trafficking Intersect

Inspired by an upcoming interview with Benji Nolot of Exodus Cry, Sathiya shares the 5 ways that pornography and sex trafficking intersect. While these two subjects are often discussed separately, the reality is they are inextricably linked in rather disturbing ways. By understanding the correlation between the two, you may think twice the next time you feel tempted to watch porn.
1) Predatory nature of prostitution
2) Non-consenting is the norm for prostitutes (and then the films are released online)
3) Child victims of sex trafficking are shown pornography as a way to groom them into sex trafficking in the name of love
4) Pornography fuels men's appetite for prostitution
5) Pornography is created through multiple layers of coercion (not abduction)
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501 - 5 FAQs About Recovery That You Need To Know

To commemorate passing 500 episodes of the podcast, today's episode explores the 5 more frequently asked questions in our communities surrounding recovery, including:
-How do I talk to people about my struggle?-How long does it take to recover?-What does it mean to address the roots?-Should I have an internet filter while I recover?-Is it ok for my wife to be my accountability partner?
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500 - Shawn & Helena Bonneteau on Idolizing Recovery, How Brutal Honesty Saved Their Marriage, and Why Feeling Wanted Is Irresistible

Shawn and Helena Bonneteau have played a helping hand in transforming over 2000 relationships through their coaching services and podcast. Both Shawn and Helena struggled with an addiction to porn and masturbation and by the grace of God are now celebrating over 5 years of freedom individually and as a couple. Shawn is a certified Inner Child Recovery Specialist and together, they are certified sexual addiction mentors and certified Husband Material coaches.
In today's interview, Shawn, Helena & Sathiya discuss:-How Shawn quit p*rn on his 25th birthday-Helena's own struggle with porn problem and abusive relationships (which were influenced by porn)-Shawn totally botching the disclosure process-Something felt off when they started having sex in their marriage-Everything blew up in one big conversation when they were both finally honest with each other about their struggles-How journaling rescued Shawn's recovery-Helena's journey through betrayal trauma with a close friend-Why they both watched porn: Distance (emotionally & physically) from parents; porn was a 'soother' and provided worth/feeling of desired-Women are not expecting perfection, but they are expecting honesty, otherwise they feel disrespected-At 3 year mark into Shawn's recovery is when Helena had a day where there were no triggers-Why intimate knowledge of one another is necessary to build trust-Recovery can become an idol — don't get caught up into just "doing the stuff", make sure you're actually applying the work
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499 - Uncovering Your Holy Identity, pt 2

Continuing from yesterday's episode, today's episode explains why the work of Christ on the cross affords us the opportunity to be holy. When we understand that holiness is our identity, not just an instruction, rather than trying to acquire holiness we learn to uncover it. 
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