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115 - How Good Leadership Prevents Slips

115 - How Good Leadership Prevents Slips

September 24, 2021

Leadership, leadership, leadership. This is a subject that often comes up, as poor leadership is the first domino to fall in a chain of events/thoughts that end as as lip. Growing as leaders is a mandate for the recovered man and today's episode explains why and how.

53 - Every Man Is A Leader

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114 - The Difference Between Restoration & Reconciliation

114 - The Difference Between Restoration & Reconciliation

September 23, 2021

Restoration is for the self. Reconciliation is for the relationship. Knowing the difference is critical in the recovery process, especially as you experience healing from wounds of the past. Today's episode gives you clear advice on how to approach the recovery process in both regards, as only one of these concepts is necessary to experience full freedom from sexual misbehavior.

60 - Who Should I Tell About My Porn Addiction?

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113 - How Much Can I Get Away With In My Relationship?

113 - How Much Can I Get Away With In My Relationship?

September 22, 2021

Warning, you are about to listen to a subject that is rather touchy for the host! Today's episode explains why "What can I get away with?" is a horrible question to ask in general, but particularly in relationships. There is a better alternative that is bound to lead to better decision-making and more fulfilling relationships. Sathiya uses his own personal experiences to explain both the classic mistakes and the alternatives that you can begin applying today.

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112 - Your Strongest Desire vs Your Deepest Desire

112 - Your Strongest Desire vs Your Deepest Desire

September 21, 2021

Inspired by a recent interview featuring John Mark Comer and Carey Nieuwhof, Sathiya unpacks the statement, "Your strongest desire is not the same as your deepest desire." We are regularly tempted to cater to our strongest desires, as they are often the loudest and most present. While they are tempting, it is the fulfillment of our deepest desires that truly bring satisfaction in life. Today's episode explains this concept in more detail while offering some practical ways for you to apply it to your life.

Carey Nieuhof Leadership Podcast

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111 - Dan Martin (pureHOPE) on Talking To Kids About Sex, Dismantling Purity Culture, and Learning From Past Mistakes

111 - Dan Martin (pureHOPE) on Talking To Kids About Sex, Dismantling Purity Culture, and Learning From Past Mistakes

September 20, 2021

Dan Martin is Director of Training and Partnerships for pureHOPE. He is a frequent conference speaker and guest teaching Pastor on topics addressing Family, Parenting, Marriage and Technology. In today's episode, Dan talks with Sathiya about the detriment of purity culture, redefining healthy sexuality, practical ways for having conversations with your kids about sex, and many other subjects. It is a very rich interview. If you struggle with any kind of religious shame around sex, this episode is especially for you!

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110 - Why Ending Good Relationships Early Is Wise

110 - Why Ending Good Relationships Early Is Wise

September 17, 2021

Saying "no" to bad things easy. Saying "no" to good things is hard. Yet the greatest rewards can only be harnessed when we are willing to sacrifice the good things in our lives. Today's episode anecdotally explains why sometimes ending a good relationship makes sense if it means you get the chance for something great. It is God's delight to honor these sacrifices, especially when the motives for doing so are godly in nature. If you are in any role that involves providing relationship advice, or you are in a relationship and not sure if you should continue, this episode is especially for you.

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109 - Dealing With Ex‘s: Fantasies, Boundaries, and Healing

109 - Dealing With Ex‘s: Fantasies, Boundaries, and Healing

September 16, 2021

If you've been sexually active with someone from your past, it can be hard to move on psychologically, emotionally and/or sexually. Today's podcast provides you with practical ways to deal with ex's, ensuring that you leave the baggage behind as you move on with your life and enter new relationships. It doesn't matter what your past is, moving on is feasible for everyone.

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108 -   D*mn You, Lizard Brain!

108 - D*mn You, Lizard Brain!

September 15, 2021

Today's episode explores the triune brain model and how it helps us understand our behavior, and ultimately, ourselves. The brain is a beautiful thing, and when its power is correctly harnessed, we make good decisions and lead ourselves in a way that is godly and composed. If you struggle with anxiety, rushes of urges or temptations, or anything else that stops you from concentrating on a regular basis, this episode will be extremely insightful for you.

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107 - Is Purity Culture Really That Bad?

107 - Is Purity Culture Really That Bad?

September 14, 2021

Recently there has been a revolt against 'purity culture'. Today's episode explores the validity of this rebuttal and some of the complexities that surround it. While purity culture has caused significant harm over the years, we must ensure our response does not swing too far the other way at the expense of godly standards and virtues. 

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106 - Kirk Giles (Promise Keepers/Forward Church) on Defining Genders In The 21st Century, How To Handle Tiredness, and The Value of Sabbath

106 - Kirk Giles (Promise Keepers/Forward Church) on Defining Genders In The 21st Century, How To Handle Tiredness, and The Value of Sabbath

September 13, 2021

For 24 years, Kirk served on the frontlines of ministry to men through his work with Promise Keepers Canada - Impactus. He is the author of "The Seasons of Fatherhood: Why Dads Matter At Every Stage of Life." Kirk has taught thousands of men to find hope, freedom, and purpose in Jesus. In today's interview, Kirk shares why he left Promise Keepers when it was doing well, how to juggle spiritual life with the demands of family and marriage, and why prioritizing sabbath will change your impact as a man.

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105 - Finding Comfort In The Rod & Staff of God

105 - Finding Comfort In The Rod & Staff of God

September 10, 2021

Today's episode explores Psalm 23:4b and the significance it holds for us in seasons of challenge and trial. The comfort of God is available to us at all times - sometimes as guidance, other times as correction. As a Christian culture, we have become resistant to correction, but when it is done properly, there is nothing more comforting. 

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104 - Disrupting Nighttime Patterns

104 - Disrupting Nighttime Patterns

September 9, 2021

One of most vulnerable times for men is the night. A rush of urges, a swell of temptations, and racing thoughts often become the springboard into relapses. Today's episode addresses the conditioning of our brains that happens around nightlife and sleep, and some practical ways to rewire your brain to handle the night with ease.

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103 - Why Are My Anxiety Levels So High Lately?

103 - Why Are My Anxiety Levels So High Lately?

September 8, 2021

It's not secret that anxiety levels are at an all time high and it is causing problems relationally, physically, and spiritually. Today's episode dives into some of the environmental factors that are driving anxiety prevalence while offering an approach to find personalized solutions. If you have been experiencing anxiety lately or have had a long-term struggle, this episode is for you.

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102 - Creating A Recovery Mindset

102 - Creating A Recovery Mindset

September 7, 2021

The mindsets you carry around recovery matter BIG time. Many of the errors men make on the road to recovery boil down to poor thinking. Today's episode uses a metaphor to explain some of the most crucial paradigms that you must possess to achieve complete freedom from pornography.

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101 - Doug & Jorge (Castimonia) – Recovering From Multiple Affairs, The Value of Transparency, & The Healing Power of Community

101 - Doug & Jorge (Castimonia) – Recovering From Multiple Affairs, The Value of Transparency, & The Healing Power of Community

September 6, 2021

Doug & Jorge are from Castimonia – an organization that helps men recover from sexual brokenness. Having both been through multiple affairs, near marriage breakdown, and deep porn/sex addiction, both Doug & Jorge know what it's like to struggle. They also know what it's like to experience redemption through transparency, community, and having expert guidance along the way. In today's interview, they explain their stories, how to heal marriages that have been broken by porn/sex addiction, and offer practical ways to experience healing today.

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100 - Top 5 Moments of The New Man Podcast So Far

100 - Top 5 Moments of The New Man Podcast So Far

September 3, 2021

Today marks the 100th episode of The New Man! Hard to believe how far it has come in such a short time. We look back at 5 highlights of the podcast that will make a notable difference in your life. Here's to the next 100!
1 - Picking The Right Spouse Series
2 - Interview w/ Jerrad Lopes
3 - Interview w/ Dr. Joe Martin
4 - Who Should I Tell About My Porn Addiction?
5 - Attachment Theory

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99 - The Value of Hearing God‘s Voice In Recovery

99 - The Value of Hearing God‘s Voice In Recovery

September 2, 2021

Hearing God's voice is a critical piece of the recovery journey for the believer. The nudges, prompts, wisdom, and correction of the Holy Spirit goes a very long way to refining and restoring the heart of man. Today's episode details why hearing God's voice is imperative for recovery, and a few practical steps you can take to try it.

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98 - What Is The Point of Getting Married?

98 - What Is The Point of Getting Married?

September 1, 2021

In a society that reduces value for marriage by the day, you may have wondered – what's the point? Why can't I just shack up with my girlfriend? Why can't we get married later? Why even get married at all when the divorce rate is so high? These are questions that we tackle in today's episode. There are really two fundamental reasons to get married apart from the spiritual and moral aspects, commitment and safety. Whether you're single and hoping to be married one day, or you are in the thick of this beautiful life-long covenant, this episode will give you hope for the future and a greater understanding of why marriage matters so darn much.

Picking The Right Spouse – Pt 1
Picking The Right Spouse – Pt 2

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97 - Do I Measure Up? Three Surprising Facts About The

97 - Do I Measure Up? Three Surprising Facts About The

August 31, 2021

Let's be real, we're all dudes and therefore we all have penises. In today's society, pornography is not only the primary 'educator' for sex, it also teaches men about their own anatomy – for better or mostly, for worse. Today's episode outlines three surprising facts about your junk that to be frank – are extremely liberating. If you've ever wondered about size, shape, ED and the like, this is the episode for you.

The Penis Book by Aaron Spitz, MD

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96 - Ian Henderson (Naked Truth Project) – His Fathers Arrest For Having Child Porn, Post-Christian Culture In The UK, and The P Word Conference

96 - Ian Henderson (Naked Truth Project) – His Fathers Arrest For Having Child Porn, Post-Christian Culture In The UK, and The P Word Conference

August 30, 2021

Ian Henderson is the founder of The Naked Truth Project, an organization that raises awareness about the harmful effects of pornography in the United Kingdom. He is a gifted communicator and regularly speaks at conferences nationally and internationally. In today's interview, Ian shares about how he dealt with the devastating news that his father had been arrested for having child porn, how he used it to further his calling, and some of the cultural dynamics they experience around sexuality in the UK (which are surprisingly similar to the North American experience).

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