Man Within Podcast

879 - Vern Tompke: The Silent Battles Pastors Face

Why do so many pastors secretly struggle with pornography? Sathiya Sam and Vern Tompke explore this tough topic as Vern shares his personal journey through addiction, the pressures of ministry, and the power of confession and accountability. Together, they cast a vision for a more authentic church culture where pastors and their families can find real freedom and healing.00:00 Meet Vern Tomke: A Pastor’s Honest Story02:53 The Secret Battle Ministers Face with Porn06:11 How Childhood Shapes Our Deepest Struggles08:59 Living a Double Life: A Pastor’s Hidden Reality11:48 Why Are Pastors So Vulnerable?15:08 Confession or Getting Caught: What Makes the Difference?18:02 Can a Pastor Truly Be Restored After a Fall?25:09 The Surprising Key to Breaking Free for Good29:42 Accountability That Actually Works: A Fresh Approach33:25 How to Handle Moral Failures Without Losing Hope41:58 Rebuilding Faith and Trust After Betrayal44:53 A Bold Vision for the Future Church: Realness Over PerfectionCheck Vern's Website Here.Get A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For RecoveryWatch Sathiya on Youtube For More No-Corn Content.

878 - Making The Most of Christmas

What if Christmas could mean more than just gifts and gatherings? In this episode, Sathiya dives deep into the heart of the holiday season, exploring the profound significance of faith, family, and purpose. Through personal reflections and powerful insights, he reveals why Jesus is the cornerstone of Christmas and how shifting your focus can unlock a deeper, more fulfilling experience. Discover how serving others and embracing what truly matters can transform your holiday season like never before.00:00 Discover the Hidden Message of Christmas02:57 How Christmas Can Transform Your Life05:50 Breaking Free from the Trap of Materialism09:08 The Key to a Truly Memorable ChristmasReady to break free? My new videos on Youtube will guide you to lasting freedom: https://www.youtube.com/@sathiyamesam

877 - Stress Will Ruin Your Holidays (Unless You Do This)

The holiday season is meant to be joyful, but it often brings hidden stressors, family drama, financial strain, work pressure, and even challenges in your faith. In this episode, Sathiya reveals how to navigate these obstacles with intention and resilience. Discover the power of a 'Green Zone Plan,' a proactive strategy to stay emotionally grounded and handle holiday triggers like a pro. If you're ready to reclaim your peace and truly enjoy the holidays, this conversation is for you!00:00 How Stress Can Impact Your Holidays01:13 Understanding Family Stress During the Holiday Season02:15 End-of-Year Work Stress and How to Handle It02:50 Tackling Financial Pressure From Holiday Spending03:35 Navigating Faith-Based Stress and Extra Responsibilities04:30 The Importance of Emotional Fitness for Holiday Challenges05:06 Why Intentionality Matters During Stressful Seasons05:17 Managing Stress With a Green Zone Plan07:23 The Power of Proactive Strategies in Stress ManagementGet A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For Recovery

876 - Vince Miller: Discovering God’s Truth About Real Manhood

In this episode, Sathiya talks to Vince Miller to tackle the big questions men wrestle with in today's world. Together, they uncover the timeless challenges men face, explore the powerful connection between identity in Christ and true purpose, and offer fresh insights into the difference between cultural masculinity and biblical manhood.
From navigating sin patterns to establishing daily spiritual rhythms, this conversation dives deep into how men can transform their lives through prayer, repentance, and meaningful connection with God. Vince also shares practical strategies for integrating faith into everyday life, especially in the midst of parenting and the fast-paced demands of modern life.
If you're looking for inspiration, clarity, and actionable steps to redefine your walk with God, this episode is a must-listen!
00:00 The Evolution of Men's Ministry04:48 Understanding Identity in Christ10:40 Core Needs and Sin Patterns17:50 Defining Manhood vs. Masculinity21:55 Finding Purpose Through Following41:23 Practical Tips for Consistent Spiritual Practices45:43 Navigating Spiritual Rhythms in Parenthood55:52 Understanding and Communicating RepentanceVince Miller's websiteFollow Sathiya on InstagramCheck Out Sathiya's Personal YouTube Channel

875 - 3 Keys To Avoid Holiday Relapses

The holiday season can be the most dangerous time for individuals in recovery from pornography addiction. In this episode, Sathiya reveals why pornography traffic spikes during the holidays, the subtle traps that lead to relapse, and most importantly, how to avoid them. Discover the practical strategies you need to build structure, stay connected, and strengthen your spiritual discipline during this high-risk season. Don’t let the holidays derail your progress. Take charge, stay strong, and enter the new year with unstoppable momentum.
00:10 What Happens To Porn Traffic During The Holidays?02:08 How Your Daily Routine Could Make Or Break You03:45 The Hidden Emotional Traps Of The Holiday Season04:07 Why This Time Of Year Can Stir Up Unexpected Struggles04:24 Could Your Holiday Diet Be Sabotaging Your Recovery?07:25 The Secret Weapon For Staying Strong During The Holidays07:52 How To Find Lasting Relief From Guilt And Shame08:42 The Key To Making Each Day Count In Your RecoverySteven Shields: Stop Managing Your Addiction (Do This Instead)Watch This Free Training To Quit Porn In The Next 120 DaysGet A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For RecoveryFollow Sathiya on InstagramCheck Out Sathiya's Personal YouTube Channel

874 - Why Every Man Should Want Challenges In His Life

Join Sathiya on this episode of the Man Within Podcast as he passionately discusses why every man should face challenges in life. Drawing on personal experiences and scriptural insights, he underscores how trials develop perseverance, character, and hope. Key scriptures from Romans 5:3-5 and James 1:2-4 highlight the importance of embracing and enduring difficult seasons to grow spiritually and mentally. Sathiya encourages listeners to find joy in their struggles and trust God's plan for their personal development.00:10 The Importance of Challenges01:07 Biblical Examples of Challenges01:41 Personal Challenges and Reflections02:28 Scriptural Insights on Perseverance04:30 Enduring Trials with Joy08:14 Encouragement and Final Thoughts
 
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872 - Your Grandma Watches Porn Too

In this episode of the Man Within podcast, Sathiya Sam explores the intriguing subject of generational differences in porn consumption. Drawing on a 2022 study with over 5,000 participants, Sathiya discusses how technological and lifestyle changes have influenced porn use across different age groups. He also highlights specific genres linked to higher risks of addiction and emphasizes the importance of modeling integrity for future generations. Don't miss out on valuable insights and practical recovery advice.00:09 Generational Differences in Porn Consumption03:13 Study Insights and Statistics06:22 Genres Linked to Higher Addiction Risk09:22 Call to Action and ConclusionWatch This Free Training To Quit Porn In The Next 120 DaysGet A Free Copy of The Last Relapse, A Blueprint For RecoveryFollow Sathiya on InstagramFollow Check Out Sathiya's Personal YouTube Channel

871 - Entering Your "Promised Land"

Join Sathiya Sam on the Man Within Podcast as he dives deep into the journey of entering your promised land. Drawing inspiration from the Israelites' story, he discusses the importance of believing in yourself, enduring hardships, and the significance of recovery. With personal anecdotes and biblical references, Sathiya empowers listeners to persevere through trials, encouraging them to hold onto their dreams and God's promises. Don't miss the insights on how facing challenges is often evidence of nearing God's plan for your life.00:00 Welcome to The Man Within Podcast00:11 Entering Your Promised Land01:45 The Courage of Recovery02:13 Lessons from the Israelites04:29 Believing in Yourself06:59 Facing Challenges in the Promised Land09:23 Endurance and Perseverance10:15 A Personal Story of Recovery11:20 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
 
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870 - Stop Managing Your Addiction (Do This Instead)

In this episode, Steven Shields shares his powerful journey from managing addiction to finding lasting freedom. Together, we uncover the mindset shifts and practical steps that can lead to true healing. Steven’s story offers hope, actionable strategies, and a deeper understanding of the role faith, community, and vulnerability play in overcoming addiction.
Main Topics:- Shifting from sobriety-focused recovery to a freedom-driven approach.- Steven’s personal journey of healing and the lessons he’s learned along the way.- How storytelling and vulnerability can inspire transformation in recovery.- Breaking free from the "forever recovering" mindset.- The role of faith, truth, and self-compassion in the recovery process.- Building a strong support system and the courage to share your story.
Steven’s story reminds us that freedom from addiction is possible. Tune in for more stories and strategies to inspire your own journey toward lasting transformation.
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869 - How To End 2024 A Clean Man

Sathiya welcomes listeners to The Man Within Podcast and emphasizes the importance of proactive recovery to end the year clean, challenging the listeners' common resolutions and encouraging them to start now rather than waiting for January. He provides actionable advice on coping mechanisms, reflecting on progress, and specific strategies to avoid holiday relapses.
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