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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
We make a point to talk about recovering from pornography addiction as being FREE from pornography.
Almost all of us seek freedom in various aspects of life, and I want to share a couple of fundamental principles of what freedom actually looks like and how to start to develop it in your life...whether that's in work, time, money, addiction, or any other area of your life.
This is both fundamental and practical, and will hopefully fast track your own journey to freedom.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:30 How to get freedom in ALL areas of your life
2:19 Sathiya's personal story of addiction and powerlessness
7:02 The 2 core principles of freedom
7:43 Principle 1: Freedom = Options
8:48 Principle 2: Establish Priorities
9:57 Bonus Principle: Surround yourself with people who have freedom in the area you desire
12:31 Start with INNER freedom from vices
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Join us for our another live-coaching episode! We're excited to answer a question from a courageous man on the recovery journey, as well as a listener-submitted question.
Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.
Before we get into the coaching, Sathiya and Shawn dive into the impact of learning to experience and feel safety in your body in order to defeat old patterns and lies - and the harmful coping mechanisms they lead to, like pornography. They get into why it's important to do the work now to heal your past not just for you, but so that you don't pass these things on to your kids.
Listener questions surround learning how to trust God after feeling neglected by Him, and the Biblical basis for using psychology and looking into the emotional roots of addiction.
In this episode, we discuss:
2:28 Nervous system regulation and creating safety to get beyond your fears and coping mechanisms
14:47 Heal your fears so you don't pass them on to your kids
21:36 Question 1 (LIVE): How to truly make God my joy, instead of putting all the pressure on my wife? (Especially after recent slip ups after 1+ year sober)
31:34 Follow up: Grew up feeling neglected by God in a charismatic church...how do I ask Him for strategies when I don't feel the closeness?
36:10 Question 2: What's the biblical grounding of looking at the emotional roots to heal and become free from porn?
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
How Attachment Affects Your Relationship With God Podcast Episode (Apple)
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
We focus a LOT on the negative consequences of porn addiction, and for good reason. The fear of pain is often more motivating than the promise of reward.
BUT...it can't be all about escaping consequences forever. That type of motivation will wear a man out after awhile if it's not balanced with some positive expectations.
Today we break down 3 of the major positive changes to look forward to when you get free from porn. Look forward with joy and hope!
In this episode, we discuss:
0:38 The joys awaiting you on the other side of freedom
2:42 Create a vision board of your porn-free life (why do you actually WANT to quit pornography?)
4:18 Change #1: You start to feel powerful
6:20 Change #2: You will feel purposeful...your life MATTERS
8:15 Change #3: You'll feel connected
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book)
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Josh is the founder of Wellness+Wisdom, a website, podcast, and community dedicated to helping you live life liberated.
In this episode, Sathiya and Josh discuss spiritual maturity, the pain and honesty required to achieve liberation (and why it's worth it), Josh's struggle and recovery from pornography, and the simple yet often-misunderstood path to true and lasting behaviour change.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:00 Intro to Josh and the framework of this conversation
4:23 The big WHY behind what Josh does with Wellness+Wisdom
10:46 What does it mean to be spiritually mature as a man in the 21st century?
12:33 Emotional epigenetics (and why Josh trademarked the term)
19:45 What does "wellness" truly mean?
25:58 How to find true freedom and peace through the process of liberation
32:41 What helped Josh break free from pornography
40:57 Practical behaviour change
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
Wellness+Wisdom Podcast
Sathiya's Episode on the Wellness+Wisdom Podcast
Liberated Life Tribe
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
As men, we want to be sure that the actions we're taking are having the desired outcomes.
When it comes to quitting pornography, you want to make sure that the strategies you're using are ACTUALLY changing you for good.
In this episode, we'll cover the 3 main indicators of truly overcoming porn addiction so you know whether you're on the right track of not.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:37 3 signs you're actually overcoming porn addiction
3:21 Sign #1: The TREND (not the streak) is heading in the right direction
5:40 Sign #2: Your sexual appetites begin to change
7:42 Sign #3: You relate to other people more effectively
10:02 A word of caution...
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneteau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions!
Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.
We go deep today talking about practical strategies to manage triggers as we move into summer (and the more revealing clothing it brings), including why "bouncing the eyes" is actually not great advice. Then Sathiya and Shawn answer your questions on how to improve impulse control and what to do when you have a much higher sex drive than your wife.
In this episode, we discuss:
2:13 Summer weather, bikinis, and strategies for dealing with triggers
8:11 From lust to sadness and grief over a woman who's experienced pain
10:46 "Bouncing the eyes" is bad advice?
16:04 Practical summertime strategies when triggered
20:47 Question 1: How to improve impulse control
25:06 Question 2: What does a man do to refocus his hyperactive sex drive when his wife doesn't want sex as much as he does?
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book!)
Sheila Wray Gregoire Episode
The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Gregoire
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
The difference between boys and men is that boys are impatient and think they can get whatever they want without the time and effort that it requires.
Boys spend all their time on "get rich quick" schemes (financially, in fitness, in recovery), when they could have had what they wanted already if they had just prioritized long-term outcomes from the get-go.
In this episode, Sathiya will help you become a MAN by making the choices real men make.
In this episode, we discuss:
1:20 Experiencing LASTING change in your life
4:41 Prioritizing long term results over short term results
9:54 It never takes you as long as you think, and it never happens as quick as you think
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book)
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Today's episode is a LIVE, in-person interview with a man wise beyond his years, transformation coach Naftali Moses.
We went deep, with both of us sharing transparently about our journey through porn addiction and recovery, plus the real issues that keep men from living a full, authentic life.
This conversation will challenge you, but as you'll learn, that's exactly where you need to be for growth and transformation.
Join us in uncovering the truth we all often reject.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:00 Intro to my wide ranging conversation with Naftali
2:37 The American Pie films were actually porn
3:15 Why would women ever tell a man it's okay to watch porn?
5:03 Sathiya's journey through addiction and recovery
10:20 Intimacy disorders and identity
17:34 What finally started Sathiya's recovery
25:36 A simple tool to heal perfectionism
27:51 Naftali's story of getting free from porn
36:25 Triggers, porn genres, and mommy issues
40:07 Porn tricks you into thinking you understand women
45:01 How to deal with sadness and loneliness
50:48 Letting yourself feel
57:00 Social media is the gateway drug to porn
1:03:17 How to bridge the gap between a lie that feels good and life-giving reality
1:08:26 Doubt and uncertainty
1:09:35 Reaching the ideal
1:13:55 What should a woman do if her guy is watching porn?
1:17:46 The necessity of aloneness to prepare for true community
1:21:48 Those who lack mystery in their life worship a God their size
1:24:52 What's going to happen to men?
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
Naftali Moses IG
Naftali Moses YT
Naftali Moses Website
Wellness + Wisdom with Josh Trent
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
There was a period where I was unsatisfied with "just" helping guys quit porn. It felt like something was missing.
I finally realized that we weren't "just" doing anything...we were helping men reach their potential. Because when they were no longer slaves to pornography, their lives started flourishing in amazing ways.
In this episode, I want to talk to you about the danger of pursuing your potential, and then outline two specific things that will help you pursue your potential healthily, without cratering OR settling.
In this episode, we discuss:
1:31 The work we do is really about helping guys reach their potential
5:12 Is what you're doing now a reflection of what you envisioned in high school?
7:46 Potential is a moving goal post
9:15 How to pursue your potential without cratering or settling
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book)
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Join us for our another live-coaching episode! We're excited to bring two courageous men on the show who we'll coach LIVE here to help them get to the root of their issues and find freedom.
Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.
Before we get into the live coaching, Sathiya and Shawn discuss the importance of claiming your true identity and figuring out your ACTUAL motivation for recovery, so that you're not just constantly "managing" your addiction, but truly finding healing and growth.
We brought on two amazing listeners who asked questions, and we did our best to give them some live coaching during the episode. Questions include how to handle everything suddenly becoming a trigger after 6 months of being free from porn, and how to stop codependent patterns around caring more about what your wife thinks about your recovery than your own actual recovery.
In this episode, we discuss:
1:14 Persevering with a vision, even through hardship
3:29 What are the elements of a healthy, solid identity?
7:27 When your idea of identity betrays a false underlying belief
10:00 The power (necessity?) of having local accountability and real relationships
12:01 The challenges of isolation, especially spiritually
15:24 Is your secret life exhausting you?
17:19 Finding your ACTUAL motivation for recovery and handling higher temptation environments
21:55 Question 1: Free from porn for 6 months, but now everything is a trigger...how do I overcome this?
32:54 Question 2: How do I stop my codependent habits and correctly order my relationship with God and my wife?
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book)
Get Your Question Answered:
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LET'S CONNECT
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Please subscribe and review on Apple or Spotify!
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