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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
The topic every parent hopes they avoid, but statistically almost all of us will deal with...what do you do when your child is struggling with pornography?
In this episode, I'll break down what NOT to do, give you some general principles and guidelines to follow, and then provide 3 tactics to successfully help your child break free from pornography.
In this episode, we discuss:
2:09 The wrong way to approach it...
5:13 Tactic 1: Be Safe...don't be reactive
6:48 Tactic 2: Come up with solutions and plans together
9:07 Tactic 3: Celebrate small wins
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Resources Mentioned:
Brain, Heart, World Documentary
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
No matter what part of life you want to improve - including quitting porn - there is one overarching principle for success.
It's not flashy, it's not an overnight success hack, BUT...without it, you'll continue to go in circles and spend more of your life addicted, longing for more, and missing your targets.
Learn how to apply this principle to every area of your life in today's episode.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:50 The most effective way to quit porn
1:41 The one fundamental principle that applies to every area of my growth
4:48 The problem with internet filters in recovery (and the consequences of violating this principle)
7:02 Prioritize what is unseen over what is seen
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
David Waldy offers transformational brotherhood & elite men’s coaching for ambitious visionaries who refuse mediocrity.
Through his brand Fierce Empathy, David helps men understand who they truly are, then take action to become the best version of themselves.
In this episode, Sathiya and David talk about what fierce empathy actually means, how to develop it, the problem most men face as they are attempting to grow and develop, practical tools for success, and David's incredible story of transformation by the grace of God.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:00 Why you need to listen to this episode
2:39 What is fierce empathy?
6:19 Ask better questions to develop fierce empathy
12:51 The biggest hang up to developing empathy
17:18 Practical ways to give yourself compassion, empathy, and healing
25:14 How to strike the balance between initial excitement and long-term commitment?
35:47 The commonality in men who find success
43:11 David's story of coming close to suicide and how God delivered him
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Resources Mentioned:
David Waldy Website
David Waldy on IG
David Waldy on TikTok
David Waldy on FB
The Ardent Man
The Go Giver by Bob Berg
Loving What Is by Byron Katie
The Greatest Salesman in the World by Og Mandino
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
As we help more and more guys quit porn, I've changed my mind on what the hardest part about quitting is.
I used to think it was consistency and falling off, and having to get back on the horse (which is still extremely difficult, to be sure).
But recently I've noticed that there's a much deeper issue...and if nobody's ever told you about it, you probably won't randomly uncover it and find success. So, let me share with you my new answer to the hardest part of quitting pornography and take what's probably in your subconscious and make it conscious...so you can grow and recover.
In this episode, we discuss:
2:04 My OLD answer to this question...
4:33 The one quote that explains my NEW answer
8:02 How to truly recover...embrace the loss!
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
Leadership Pain by Samuel Chand
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
This is a HUGE topic today, as the cultural narrative changes regarding attraction, especially as it relates to same-sex attraction and the LGBTQ community.
I want to help you unpack an often muddled and confused topic...the difference between desire and arousal. One of them is a natural, God-given thing, and the other can be shaped by your environment in ways that even override those natural desires.
Plus, you'll learn the third piece of this puzzle and how to heal and bring everything back into alignment.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:43 The difference between desire and arousal
3:07 How to interpret your desires
5:10 Arousal experiences (and how they differ from desire)
9:43 God did not design you incorrectly!
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book!)
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Jake Hamilton is a church planter, a creative entrepreneur, a worship leader, recording artist, and men's movement leader.
He trains men to Fight for what matters while destroying shame, depression, addiction, apathy, and isolation.
In this conversation, Sathiya and Jake cover a ton of ground from the wake-up call in Jake's life, to "whole life integration" (vs. work life balance), to rites of passage, fatherhood, and what men need to truly transform and become the leaders God made them to be.
In this episode, we discuss:
2:25 Jake's story from musician to men's movement leader
8:09 What kind of influence does a leader have to have in your life to be able to deliver a strong, loving, and helpful rebuke?
10:42 Transition and truly putting your family first
19:34 Biblical masculinity and attracting the attention of men who the church often misses
29:47 Rites of passage and initiation tips for dads
39:21 Why men are at the center of fixing marriage, children, and the world
49:00 Opportunities for fathers to step up and lead well
54:19 How men can truly do the work and get the transformation they desire
58:57 How Jake's navigating giving preference to his family in this season of helping men
1:04:20 Whole life integration vs work-life balance
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Resources Mentioned:
Jake Hamilton Website
Jake Hamilton on Instagram
The Fight
Order Jake's Book "The Journey to Biblical Masculinity"
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
What does productivity have to do with porn recovery? A lot!
Porn distracts us, makes us more unproductive, more prone to relating to women unacceptably in the workplace, and generally speaks to a deeper underlying issue that is causing you to literally waste your life.
Here are my top 3 tips to become a more productive man and achieve TRUE freedom.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:34 Why productivity matters on your recovery journey
2:22 Porn addiction at work has increased
5:15 What productivity really is
6:00 Productivity Tip #1: Learn to regulate
7:56 Productivity Tip #2: Eliminate distractions
10:20 Productivity Tip #3: Get rid of seemingly healthy vices
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
The Citizen Article - Porn addiction at work has increased
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Join us for our another live-coaching episode! We're excited to answer 2 live coaching questions today that are both VERY relevant to almost everyone who listens to this podcast.
Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.
Before we get into the coaching, Sathiya and Shawn dive into the ACTUAL steps along their recovery journey that made the most difference. This is one of the most valuable talks you'll hear on this podcast, and we highly encourage you to take notes and apply these 10+ things to your life.
Listener questions surround healing from insecurities that lead to unhealthy attachment and a difficulty quitting porn, and what to do to finally break free from a 20+ year addiction when you've tried a whole lot of things but haven't truly become free.
In this episode, we discuss:
1:43 10+ Extremely Practical Tips from Sathiya and Shawn's Own Successful Recovery Journeys
16:28 Question 1: How to heal from insecurities around romantic desires and attachments?
25:24 Question 2: How to truly break free after a 20+ year addiction when you've done a ton of work but none of it has had truly lasting results?
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
Unwanted by Jay Stringer
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
We run a coaching program to help men break free from pornography addiction, we run a podcast to the same effect, we post on Instagram about it all the time...pretty safe to say we inherently understand and believe porn is bad.
Yet as we get more and more chances to speak to people in the "outside" or "secular" world, we're coming across more and more people who are asking us why porn is bad.
So, to answer that basic but very important question, we're dropping this episode today to show just HOW bad and harmful pornography is...to those watching and those acting.
Let this sink in and really ask yourself whether it's still worth it.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:35 What's ACTUALLY bad about porn?
2:54 Reframe...why is porn harmful?
3:20 The negative consequences of porn use
4:50 Physical side effects
6:14 Decreased sexual satisfaction and bad education
7:52 Broken relationship dynamics
8:23 The morality of pornography
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Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Tuesday Jul 30, 2024
Daniele Hage is a wife, mom, pastor, podcaster, and speaker on all things relationship. She works with both wives and husbands, spending much of her time on helping women understand men to love them better, in order to build strong marriages.
In this episode, we talk about roles in marriage, the power and risks of men's sensitivity, the true weight of responsibility in marriage, how to communicate well with your spouse, healthy sexual intimacy, and more.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:00 Introducing Daniele Hage
2:54 Why are men so excited about Daniele's message?
6:49 Are there areas of life where gender roles are non-negotiable?
11:18 How to discern when to submit and when to seek counsel
14:50 Feminism's impact on society
19:36 The truth about male sensitivity
24:47 The (good) weight of responsibility
30:32 How to fix the #1 reported issue in relationships
38:14 How men relate to sex
43:08 What to do if you're in a sexless marriage
51:03 Building and raising strong families
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
Daniele Hage on Instagram
Daniele Hage Podcast (Apple)
Daniele Hage Podcast (Spotify)
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