Man Within Podcast

527 - Can I watch R-rate movies while I’m recovering?

Today's episode discusses the importance of having clear guidelines for content consumption not only while in recovery, but post-recovery. While it is easy to take your foot off the gas, in the early stages of recovery you must be vigilant about the content you intake, ensuring that you are never "pre-triggered".
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526 - Hope For The Hopeless

If you need some encouragement in recovery or would like to hear about how other people are getting clean of porn and other sexual misbehavior, this episode is for you! Featuring 5 different recovery stories, today's episode will inject you with hope, inspiration, and a fresh reminder that recovery is possible for anyone who is willing to put their mind to it.
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525 - Matt Beaudreau on Limitations of Mainstream Education, Eliminating The Victim Mindset and What Real Manhood Looks Like

Matt co-founded Apogee Strong with Tim Kennedy, a mentorship program designed for young men from 12 to 22 to take on challenges presented by men who have come before them, in order to learn to lead. It is a right of passage through mentorship, action, and self-discovery so that young men can become true leaders. This has blossomed into a mission to bring back classic masculinity in the home, and fueled the launch of the Apogee Strong Dads Program in 2023.As a Keynote Speaker, Consultant, and Coach to organizations around the world, Matt Beaudreau has worked with the likes of Wells Fargo, Honeywell, American Eagle, Cedars-Sinai and the United States Air Force. He has a reputation as a provocative thought leader in educational and personal development practices. He is a two-time featured TEDx speaker and he was named Corporate Trainer of the Year at Stanford University, having spoken to over 250,000 people across the world.In this discussion with Sathiya, they discuss:-Why achieving at a high level from a young age let him feeling empty-Discovering the limitations of existing education systems-Why education is wildly personal-Self-directed school-Parents must be inspired for their kids to be inspired-Physical health is the precursor to mental health-Victim mentality has become a virtue-It's easier to build strong children than to fix broken men-Signs of maturity in men-Signs that a man is truly leading-Creating prototypes for the most important areas of your life-You have to kill the old stuff first before you install the new stuff
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524 - Money Management and Internet Porn: Why Stewardship Is Vital For Recovery

This unique episode discusses the connection between how we manage money and how it reflects our experience of recovery. Using personal examples, Sathiya explains 2 major lessons around money he has been learning:
1) Systems are everything
2) There's no such thing as spending, and how application of these principles in a recovery context is critical for long-term success.
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523 - Is Freedom In Jesus Enough?

Today's episode explores the usage of theological truth in a recovery context. While statements like "Jesus is enough for me" are absolutely true, they can be misused to mask fear, insecurity, and pride. This episode will give you perspective on how to know if you are really trusting and leaning into God in your recovery, or if you are simply ignoring solutions in front you in the name of "Jesus being enough"
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522 - Combatting Complacency

Complacency is often the result of 1 of 2 things: tiredness or hopelessness. Today's episode explains how to find the main cause of your complacency, which in turn provides clarity on what you will need to do to "snap yourself" out of a funk.
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521 - Trigger Diggers: Quickest Way To Get To The Roots

This extremely practical episode provides a look into Trigger Diggers – a DeepClean concept that draws connections between everyday triggers and root issues. By effectively using this process, you will get crystal clarity on your root issues in a matter of minutes, while also having an idea of what the solutions might be to move forward in your recovery.
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520 - Nate Larkin on How Seminary Worsened His Addiction, Why Accessibility Trumps Accountability, and The Unmistakable Link Between Trauma & Addiction

Nate Larkin is a recovered porn and sex addict, the founder of the Samson Society, and the author of Samson and the Pirate Monks: Calling Men to Authentic Brotherhood. As of 2023, more than 500 local Samson Society groups have started and thousands of men from around the world are attending daily online video meetings at samsonsociety,org.In this interivew, Nate and Sathiya discuss:-Porn is a maladaptive response to trauma-How a seminary trip to New York brothels with his wife made things much worse-The somatic response in a unique moment of high danger and high pleasure creates a "bookmark" (memory)-In a tug of war between the head and the heart, the heart always wins-The emotional disconnect with wife (Allie) as addiction worsened-Porn programs you for prostitution-Retiring from ministry at 30 due to addiction-Being who you are outside of the church is harder than being who you are inside the church-Experiencing freedom through community-The moment that changed everything in his recovery-Recovery is learning to walk; you may fall down along the way-Relapse in recovery is not necessary but it is normative-Have realistic expectations of recovery: This is a process;-Rookie mistakes to avoid when you start recovery-Why ACCESSIBILITY is superior to accountability-Progressive healing isn't any less miraculous
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519 - Easy Growth Hack: Do The Hard Things First

Today's episode dives into the importance of doing the hard things first, rather than delaying them. Often when we fail to do the things we KNOW we should be doing, we set ourselves up for pain, hardship, and elongated dysfunction.
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518 - Identity First, Then Behavior

The world would like you to believe that your identity is determined by your behavior, but in the Kingdom of God, your behavior is determined by your identity. This episode explains why you must know your identity through and through, and how to deepen your belief in what God says about you even when you don't really believe it.
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