Man Within Podcast

928 - Johnny & Emily Spigelmire: How We Survived Porn Addiction and 3 Affairs in Marriage

In this conversation, Johnny and Emily share their journey of love, marriage, and the challenges they faced over the years. They discuss how they met, their early relationship, and the intentional steps they took to build a strong foundation for their marriage. However, as they navigated parenthood and life’s pressures, secrets began to surface, leading to struggles with pornography and emotional disconnection. The couple reflects on the turning points in their relationship, the impact of their choices, and the importance of communication and faith in overcoming adversity. 
 
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Chapters
00:00 The Beginning of a Journey03:00 From Friends to Partners06:10 Building a Purposeful Marriage09:00 Navigating Early Parenthood11:55 The First 15 Years: A Honeymoon Phase15:06 The Unraveling: Secrets and Struggles17:47 The Impact of Pornography21:09 The Turning Point: Year 2023:59 The Consequences of Disconnection31:16 Navigating Trust and Doubt in Relationships34:26 The Unraveling: Discovery of Infidelity39:32 The Impact of Lies and Deception43:55 The Pain of Betrayal: Understanding the Depths46:44 The Journey to Full Disclosure51:43 Rebuilding Trust After Betrayal56:59 The Decision to Stay: A Covenant of Love01:01:23 From Brokenness to New Beginnings01:06:47 Advice for Those in Similar Situations

927 - Q&A - How Do I Overcome Past Sexual Experiences?

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya addresses a listener's question about struggling with masturbation and the impact of past sexual experiences. He emphasizes the importance of understanding triggers, particularly at nighttime, and suggests developing healthy nighttime routines. 
 
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00:00 Introduction to the Q&A Session00:57 Understanding the Struggle with Masturbation03:46 Exploring Nighttime Routines and Triggers08:05 Addressing Past Sexual Experiences and Their Impact

926 - Would Jesus be Addicted to Porn In Todays World?

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya explores the provocative question of whether Jesus would struggle with porn addiction in today's world. He discusses the nature of temptation, the importance of understanding the difference between temptation and sin, and how Jesus' example can guide believers in their struggles. The conversation emphasizes the significance of prayer and intimacy with God as essential tools for overcoming sexual sin, along with practical tips for personal growth and recovery.
 
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00:00 Introduction to the Podcast and Topic02:18 Understanding Jesus and Temptation04:51 The Nature of Temptation vs. Sin09:28 The Role of Prayer and Intimacy with God12:44 Practical Tips for Overcoming Sexual Sin

925 - Rob Weiss: What 30 Years Treating Porn Addiction Taught Me

In this conversation, Dr. Rob Weiss discusses the complexities of sex and porn addiction, emphasizing the lack of formal recognition in diagnostic manuals like the DSM-5. He explores the distinction between compulsion and addiction, the societal stigma surrounding these issues, and the importance of understanding the underlying behaviors that lead to relationship problems. The conversation highlights the critical role of trust in relationships and the impact of secrecy on intimacy, as well as practical steps for individuals seeking help.
 
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Chapters
00:00 Understanding Sex and Porn Addiction13:01 Defining Compulsion vs. Addiction25:50 The Impact of Secrecy and Trust in Relationships29:58 Understanding the Impact of Betrayal34:57 Rebuilding Trust and Intimacy39:56 Developing Empathy in Recovery44:34 The Connection Between Addiction and Narcissism50:05 Pro-Dependence vs. Codependency58:45 Defining Recovery and Its Challenges

924 - The 6 Month Recovery Blueprint pt 2

In this episode, Sathiya delves into the second part of the Six Month Recovery Blueprint, focusing on heart healing, identity shifts, and process refinement. He emphasizes the importance of connecting past experiences with present struggles, the necessity of shifting one's identity away from past mistakes, and the significance of evaluating what works and what doesn't in the recovery process. The conversation highlights key strategies such as forgiveness, understanding unmet needs, and creating a personalized recovery plan.
 
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00:00 Introduction to the Six Month Recovery Blueprint00:29 Heart Healing: Connecting Past and Present06:03 Shifting Your Identity08:18 Process Refinement: What's Working and What's Not

923 - The 6 Month Recovery Blueprint pt 1

In this episode of the Man Within Podcast, Sathiya Sam introduces the Six Month Recovery Blueprint aimed at helping individuals quit pornography and achieve personal growth. The conversation is structured around the first three months of the recovery process, focusing on foundational elements, self-awareness, and nervous system regulation. 
 
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00:00 Introduction to the Six Month Recovery Blueprint01:47 Foundations of Recovery05:11 Building Self-Awareness08:02 Nervous System Regulation11:23 Heart Discovery and Triggers

922 - This Man Broke Free From Pn Addiction (Sam's Recovery Testimony)

In this conversation, Sam shares his profound journey of overcoming a long-standing addiction to pornography, which began in childhood and worsened during the C*VID p*ndemic. He discusses the impact of his struggles on his mental health, marriage, and faith, and how he found hope through the Deep Clean program. 
 
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Chapters
00:00 The Roots of Addiction: A Personal Journey05:01 The Impact of C*VID on Mental Health10:03 Finding Hope: The Decision to Seek Help14:50 The Deep Clean Experience: A Path to Freedom19:52 Transforming Relationships: A New Perspective24:56 Overcoming Fear: Embracing Change and Growth29:52 Looking Ahead: Dreams and Aspirations for the Future

921 - The 3 Levels of Personal Freedom

In this episode, Sathiya Sam introduces a new framework on the three levels of freedom: internal, eternal, and external. He emphasizes the importance of internal freedom, particularly in overcoming personal vices like pornography, and how it should be prioritized over external freedoms such as financial and location freedom. Sathiya encourages listeners to take inventory of their freedom in these three realms and focus on spiritual development as a foundation for a fulfilling life.
 
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00:00 Introduction to the Three Levels of Freedom02:51 Understanding Freedom: Internal, Eternal, and External06:08 The Importance of Internal Freedom08:54 Taking Inventory of Your Freedom

920 - Morning & Night Time Recovery Routines

In this episode Sathiya Sam discusses the significance of morning and nighttime routines, particularly in the context of recovery from addiction. He emphasizes how these routines can frame one's day, impact mental health, and help maintain focus and productivity. Sathiya shares insights from his personal experiences, detailing how his routines have evolved over time and the importance of connecting with God during his morning time. 
 
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00:00 The Importance of Routines in Recovery02:48 Crafting Effective Morning Routines06:13 Establishing a Nighttime Routine for Success

919 - Craig Perra: The Dark Truth Behind Fetishes (It’s Not About S*x)

Most men think their fetishes and addictions are just about desire—but the truth is, there’s something deeper at play. In this conversation, Craig breaks down why traditional recovery methods fail, how identity shifts are the real key to freedom, and what’s actually driving these urges. If you’ve been struggling in silence, this episode is for you.
 
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Chapters
00:00 Understanding Corn Addiction and Identity Shifts03:04 The Evolution of Porn Addiction Recovery06:01 The Importance of Identity Change08:50 Emotional Catharsis vs. Sustainable Growth11:58 Building Effective Accountability Plans14:54 The 90-10 Rule in Recovery17:45 Integrating Parts Work and Identity21:05 Practical Steps for Self-Leadership33:14 Transforming the Client's Relationship with Self37:12 Understanding and Retraining Parts of the Self39:25 Building a Sustainable Recovery Framework44:03 The Power of Mindfulness in Addiction Recovery51:51 Self-Care and Accountability in Recovery56:20 Navigating Parenting with Honesty and Openness