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Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
I know for a fact that you can quit porn in the next 120 days, because that's exactly what we help our clients do. Today, I want to give you my 6 step framework for quitting pornography so that you can get a head start, whether you are just finally ready to break free, or if you have a deadline coming up that you really want to quit by.
At the end, I'll tell you how to truly stack the odds in your favour, because this is NOT easy stuff.
In this episode, I discuss:
0:40 Use your Instagram for something useful! (Follow me at the link below)
1:50 A masterclass on how to quit pornography in the next 120 days
3:17 Step 1: Be unbelievably intentional and committed
5:01 Step 2: You won't do this on your own (especially in 120 days)
5:53 Step 3: Build self-awareness and establish emotional fitness
7:06 Step 4: Take a look at your past (but only long enough to learn)
8:58 Step 5: Shift your identity
10:00 Step 6: Plug into community
10:48 How to truly stack the odds in your favour
12:00 The one thing that matters more than anything else in hiring outside help
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Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Pastor Joel Sikha grew up in India and is now the pastor of Living Church Boise in Idaho. He and his wife have 5 children, and he considers himself a missionary, bringing the fullness of a Christianity born out of suffering to the often stagnant "comfortable Christian" culture in America.
Sathiya and Pastor Joel talk about how to navigate stress to stay free from relapses, the reality behind addiction, comfortable Christianity vs suffering, and impactful stories from Joel's unique upbringing.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:00 Episode and guest introduction
5:21 Joel's formative years as a young Christian in India
11:51 Being a young Christian in India compared to America
17:10 Just because you're comfortable doesn't mean you're blessed
20:26 How to get into the Bible
27:10 How do we get back to the truth?
32:44 Addiction and what you're really searching for
39:12 What Joel learned when his dad left the family
48:16 Tips for dealing with the stresses of life (to help stop relapses)
Resources Mentioned:
Living Church Boise App
Pastor Joel Sikha TikTok
Breakthrough Hour Livestreams on YouTube
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Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
There's been a lot of encouraging news out of a handful of states in the US that are passing legislation that will require age verification in order to access porn websites. For society at large, it's a good step in the right direction. But for people trying to quit pornography, it's a surface-level solution to a problem that goes much deeper. Hear my take on the recent legal news surrounding pornography in this episode.
In this episode, I discuss:
1:45 Recent legal changes in certain states
3:45 Texas vs. Pornhub
4:53 The crazy news cycle timing
7:03 Legalities do not cure porn addiction (and why)
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (FREE BOOK!)
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Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneteau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions!
Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.
We kick off this episode with an in-depth discussion about spiritual disciplines, then answer your questions on OCD, recovery timelines, and staying clean past 100 days when everything seems like a trigger.
In this episode, we discuss:
1:08 Without spiritual disciplines, you're missing out on a huge piece of recovery
9:55 The unbreakable bond between Father and son, and how to experience greater intimacy with Him
16:41 How to develop disciplines that connect you to the Lord
21:03 Question 1: Healing OCD and porn habit at the same time after a disappointing relationship experience
28:11 Question 2: Patience and discernment on recovery timelines
33:24 Question 3: Clean for 100 days, but feeling like everything is a trigger...how can I train my mind not to see things as triggers?
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Resources Mentioned
Brain FM
Dr. Eddie Capparucci Books
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Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
In this episode I talk about the main principle we teach our clients when it comes to spiritual warfare. This is something that I think can transcend denominations...something we can all agree on. It's a very simple thing, but it's actually a principle for all of life - it's all about magnifying the right thing.
In this episode, I discuss:
0:40 How to support this show in 20 seconds
1:27 How to win the spiritual battle against porn addiction
3:42 Main Principle: Magnify the right thing
9:06 Strengthening your relationship with God is the best spiritual warfare
Resources Mentioned:
Episode 277 - How To Win The Spiritual Battle For Sexual Integrity
Episode 488 - Make Sure You're Wearing The Right Armour
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Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Tony DiLorenzo runs One Extraordinary Marriage with his wife Alisa. At a crucial turning point in their marriage, they decided to get radical rather than get divorced, and by the grace of God completely turned their marriage around. Now, they've been helping Christian marriages heal and grow over the past 14 years.
Tony talks about their Six Pillars of Intimacy (and how to use them to improve your marriage), his own experience with pornography and helping marriages where it's an issue, and how to truly experience intimacy in marriage.
In this episode, we discuss:
3:38 How Tony and his wife have run One Extraordinary Marriage together for 14 years
10:45 Current trends and core issues in marriages today
15:14 How to future proof your marriage as a young couple just getting started with kids
23:03 The Six Pillars of Intimacy
30:03 How to use the six pillars to strengthen your marriage
35:25 Tony's experience breaking free from pornography and helping couples struggling with it
44:41 How to get over any barriers to being able to enjoy yourself in the bedroom and foster real sexual and physical intimacy
Resources Mentioned:
One Extraordinary Marriage
The Vagina Bible
Bondage Breaker
19 Questions to Amazing Sex With Your Spouse
One Extraordinary Marriage Show
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Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
I've never talked about this particular angle of how sex trafficking and pornography are linked. While I don't believe in shaming you or scaring you into quitting pornography, this information is staggering and honestly sobering when you think about the potential consequences of watching pornography...not only in your life, but in the lives of women and children around the world.
In this episode, I discuss:
2:00 The porn industry is the marketing department for sex trafficking
5:15 More direct links between porn and sex trafficking
6:12 The impact on kids
8:02 The hard reality of who you're watching
Resources:
The Last Relapse (get my book for free!):https://thelastrelapsebook.com/
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Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneteau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions!
Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.
We kick off this episode with one of the most important topics of recovery...your relationship with your mom. As surprising as it can be for our clients, this is one of the deepest wells to explore to become truly free - and not just have to white-knuckle your recovery and rely on your own self-control.
Then we answer your questions on the right amount to share with your significant other, who to open up to, and how to influence a sibling to make better choices.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:39 The role your relationship with your mother plays in compulsive sexual behaviour and porn use
6:46 How to determine if enmeshment is impacting your recovery
14:42 Marriage counseling update
22:37 Question 1: Is there ever a point where sharing every single sin and relapse becomes too much of a burden for my partner?
30:11 Question 2: How do I decide who to trust to open up to about my struggle with pornography?
36:00 Question 3: How to influence my teenage brother so he doesn't turn to porn or other unhealthy coping mechanisms?
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Resources Mentioned
Unwanted by Jay Stringer
The Last Relapse (Free Book)
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Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
One of the most common questions I get is from wives asking how they can support their husbands in recovery. Usually they're asking, "How can I convince my husband that he needs help?" Or sometimes the husband is already in recovery, and they're not sure how best to support or navigate the relationship.
So ladies, this one is for you.
And men...stick around to the end of the episode, I have something important for you to hear.
In this episode, I discuss:
1:40 Answering one of the most common questions from the ladies who listen to the podcast!
4:50 The first hard truth you have to accept
7:48 What to do instead...the question to ask yourself
9:18 The second layer of support you can offer
10:07 What to do if your husband isn't on the recovery journey
12:23 A message to the men listening (about your wife)
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book!)
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Friday Jul 26, 2024
Friday Jul 26, 2024
Free Call With Lila for The Women Listening, or Your Significant Other: https://calendly.com/lilap-2/30min
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✅ FREE “QUIT-PORN” CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Lila Pisor is a betrayal trauma expert. We spend most of our time on this show talking about the male experience of pornography addiction, but it is absolutely vital that you understand the female experience of addiction and recovery.
Lila provided amazing wisdom and insights for you to understand what your significant other is going through, and how to build your relationship back up as you find freedom from pornography.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:00 Intro to Lila and why this is an important episode
3:20 Lila's story of betrayal
8:05 Marriage on the other side of reconciliation and recovery
11:45 Why get into this line of work helping other couples
13:32 What prompts people to finally take action and get help?
15:30 What about women who don't see it as their problem - only their husband's?
17:01 The impact on children
22:03 What are the actual steps to working through betrayal trauma?
32:40 What characteristics usually lead to success in recovery?
34:48 How men can heal relationships while they recover from addiction
Resources Mentioned:
Regener8 Mentoring
Adam Young Big Six
Adam Young Podcast
Your Sexually Addicted Spouse
Free Call With Lila for The Women Listening, or Your Significant Other
Get Your Question Answered:
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